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What’s Love Got To Do With Life Relationship?

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– By Paul Chong Saturday, 31 October 2009

Love

Like most people I am a sucker for a good love story. Love interests both young & old, though it takes on a different perspective according to age. For the young it’s more passion while the old is full of compassion. This is the natural recourse of things.

If women did not entice timid men by every subtle trick used by birds & beasts, how would the human race be perpetuated? And if men did not force their way upon timid women, within rules of decency, how would the hesitant female ever find a partner? This is the scenario that depicts the law of natural attraction.

Love is that great four-letter word that colours your day, lifts up sky-high, all the time seemingly floating in the seventh heaven, fills you with music & makes you sing for joy! Remember the day when you dared promise every inconceivable things on earth? It has that intense feeling of deep affection. Such is the power of love!

Have you ever considered the following scenario:

  • Some people find love easily, others difficult, while still others fall in & fall out of love.
  • Love at first sight but may even be at first bite.
  • Love sustains all fight, for love is the light of your life.
  • Does love matter? All we need is great sex! Some people would say.
  • “To have sex . . . I must feel love”, but is love necessary to have sex?
  • Some believe sex in the partnership equation is the question & love is the answer.
  • The conservatives believe marriages to be made in heaven. Fate & destiny play a large part in the question of affinity.
  • Love comes from the heart & not from the dick. That’s why the image of love is always represented by the red pictorial heart.

Ultimately, sex dies as with age. Physical desire wanes as physical disability gains. Perhaps it dies faster with the female partner because of menopause, while men may still be sexually active. Love can be sustained longer, irrespective of age or state of health. It is at the golden years of our lives that we begin to treasure more of love & companionship as we expend with the energy of sex & passion.

It’s been commonly believed that only humans & a handful of animal species perform sex for pleasure other than procreation. Current understanding shows that this promiscuity & opportunistic nature are in fact more widespread.

At the end of day, in the bed where we lay, I surmise that love matters more than sex. Love lingers on. It’s the link & bond of love that perpetuate the human race.

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Excitement

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Excitement

By Paul Chong

imagesLeap for joy!

Excitement is the essence of life – the spice that gives rise to all glories. It is one element that propels you to great height of achievement. To start with, it gives you a sense of purpose and direction.

As it is, we are all the products of excitement. We are born as a result of two people falling in love and getting excited about each other. Once that excitement ebbs its magnification wanes.

But excitement taken to another level is even more of a potent force. This according to Dr Napoleon Hill, the author of “Think and grow Rich”, is referred to as the “transmutation of sex”. That is to channel all those sexual urge, drive and passion to a more intangible motivation of magnificent obsession. It’s been noted that great men of the past were all highly sexed and who had been able to convert their sexual energy to achieve greater legacies in life.

Chronological age may be a hindrance to your sexual performance and satisfying your sexual partner. However, you can redirect and channel your sexual desire for achieving other areas of human endeavour. Like focusing the sunlight under a magnifying lens, it’s got to be well focused and concentrated. It will burn right through. In life this will be the spark that triggers off the “Towering Inferno”.

If you wake up each morning feeling blue and unexcited about life, then life will similarly treat you likewise. With excitement, you’ll wake up with the break of dawn feeling great and ready to go and face life’s challenges. Remember the time when you fell in love, everyday was a glorious day for you. You could promise moon and stars and do anything. Nothing is impossible.

When Mark Twain was asked the secret of his success, he merely said, “I was born excited!” Our two grandsons Daniel & Matheson demonstrate daily that life is great. They are always excited and doing things. Lets hope this excitement dies not as it always does with the growing of years. Children are generally excited!

SANY7427_2Matheson & Daniel

Life is great. Be excited about yourself. Be excited about the things you do – be it a chore or a hobby or a sport you love. Develop that great passion that will drive you to immeasurable heights.


Sing as though there’s no tomorrow

Love like you’ve never loved before

Play as you’ve been playing all day

Stay excited everyday!

Image012_2Daniel always excited about his ice-cream

A Kiss Is Not Just A Kiss!

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A Kiss Is Not Just A Kiss!

mime-attachmentCan you see a kissing couple?

A kiss is not just a kiss. It is the universal language depicting love, or an expression of greeting. Depending on which part of the world you’re in, some kiss on the hand or cheeks, some on the nose, others on the forehead and of course on the lips. The last of which is so often dramatised on the big screen or the small screen, and which to a large extent has influenced the modern world to think differently.

1500-1251~Gone-with-the-Wind-PostersWomen have always wondered what is like to be kissed by Clark Gable

This beautiful gesture and romantic touch or caress with lips often lead on to a pervasive action. In the world of moral degradation, a kiss means it’s a passport to sexual paradise. In a word, it is defined as:

“The upper gentle persuasion arousing one to lower physical

invasion culminating in the final erotic penetration.”

Sadly enough, the original beautiful concept no longer holds true. Today jumping in and out of bed is like changing clothes. You don’t even wash and wear. You just discard them as disposable. Good and decent girls these days find it hard to protect their modesty. Their “No” is to be taken as “Yes”.

Confucius had this to say in relation to the question of rape:

“Women with skirts up run faster than men with trousers down.”

What a verified truism that is! Caught with the pants down men can hardly run. Mindful of this statement, it goes to prove that the element of consent may ever be present, for women can really fly with their skirts up!

Really, today’s value system has been switched. It’s topsy-turvy. Its price differs on an individual basis. Traditional value takes on the back stage. Modern value fronts the main stage. Where do you stand?

You’ll be the judge and jury!

Paul Chong